YouTube is the top video submission site today, there's no doubt about that. I use it to host my video demos and other video projects, but one thing I have never liked about YouTube was the "look" of the video player.
Well YouTube has introduced a custom video player which you can "customize" to your liking. Looking through the options you can select and apply a new theme, change the player layout, and choose the contents of your custom player.
There doesn't appear to be a whole lot of themes at the moment, but I'm sure more options will appear eventually. I'm going to try it out a bit more, but it looks like the video player is moving in the right direction.